Unwanted pregnancies are common among female students. This resulted to serious problems with their families. Many postponed their schooling and get menial jobs to meet the needs of their baby.
One common problem in a case like this is lack of dialogue between the parents and the son or daughter. The family is the basic unit of the society and life education including sexuality must start from it. However, the channel of communication seems to be dysfunctional among many families now. Some parents say that it is improper and unethical to talk about intimate issues with the members of the family. They believe, it's the job of the school instructors.
Actually, life education in schools is not as effective as the education at home. The instructor handles many students and its hard for him to monitor individually his students' activity more so with their sexuality problem.
What is alarming is that even primary pupils are catching up with the teen-agers about sex. Their young minds are poisoned by what they have observed in the environment especially the media.
I have discovered one Grade VI pupil browsing a sexy magazine. I even heard him talk about nude cartoons he saw on the Internet and heard him using taboo American words.
It is absolutely essential for the family to discuss concerns like reproductive health, gender sensitivity, sexuality and rights. The youth information on sex must be intelligent and sensible and not the kind they will pick up from the streets.
Involving young people as program leaders and as educators and counselors can sometimes yield better outcomes than adult professionals.
Based on the research and studies of the Visayan Reproductive Health Initiative, young people can effectively publicize program activities and draw the interest of their peers in becoming program participants. Youth spokespersons can give credibility to the program and serve as an outreach link to the community.
Involving young people as program leaders and as educators and counselors can sometimes yield better outcomes than adult professionals. Training and experience as peer educators enhance skills, self-esteem and leadership potential among the involved youth.
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"It is absolutely essential for the family to discuss concerns like reproductive health, gender sensitivity, sexuality and rights."
the root of this is the culture we have. Filipinos are very conservative and avoid to open conversation concerning on the sexuality and gender sensitivity. the parents feel awkward to talk about those issues with their children.
Proper and sensible orientation at the right age is what we need to resolve this problem. It is also effective to have peer counseling regarding those issues that concern the youth today. Youth can easily relate to their peers and leaders.
awareness is also vital for the youth on these issues.
I agree sa topic na ito, sex topic should be discussed early on with young teens. A good thing my mother warned us not to get into it otherwise pack our bags and never come back home na daw eh...LOL. But really, it is important that teens know that it is a big responsibiity. Hay, kids talaga. Good topics here, thanks for sharing.
dapat talaga magulang ang nag iinitiate ng topic tungkol sa sex, para di na nagtataka ang mga kabataaan kung ano ito. karamihan kasi "curious" lang, tapos nabubuntis / nakakabuntis nang di nila akalain.
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